Soledad Domina
Goddess, Sadist, Owner
Professional Dungeon & Lifestyle Dominatrix in Grand Rapids, Michigan
My Process
Send an inquiry to SoledadxDomina@proton.me stating your name, something about yourself or why you’re interested, and your availability.
Once we’ve corresponded via email and completed my screening process, we will arrange a time for an introductory coffee date. An introductory coffee is a time for us to get to know each other, discuss our mutual interests, and explore whether we will be a good fit for each other. If you have pressing questions and concerns, this is a good time to ask them.
On Being Good
Clear, honest communication goes a long way in getting on my good list. Respect is absolutely necessary. Appropriate worship is a delight.
Arrive to all meetings fresh and appropriately dressed. Keep all online exchanges appropriate by steering clear of sexually explicit messaging. I will not be “getting you off” in a session, and you should avoid talking about “pegging” with a professional provider in most counties in Michigan. Description of fantasies and scenes should be kept to a necessary minimum until our coffee date.
While I enjoy one-time encounters, my favorite connections are those that evolve into longer arcs. The narrative of a domme guiding her sub into deeper submission as they grow into even more emotionally resonant worship and exploration is one I enjoy in both my private and professional relationships.
On Being Bad (*not the good kind)
To stay in my favor, there are some key things to avoid. Same-day cancellations will incur a $50 fee, due at our next date or sent electronically. I am unbothered by an occasional cancellation, as long as my policy is honored and cancellations do not become a regular issue. Pushing my boundaries for any reason or begging is an immediate drop. While I may play rough with my toys, slaves, subjects, and pets, I respect them for what they are and I appreciate their time – and I expect the same from you.
Let’s get Started
The beginning of relationships are a delight. Whether you’re new to BDSM or Femdom or have decades of experience, our connection is something young and new. Our collaborative art is yet uncreated – and I look forward to exploring together.
Rates
Sessions – 350 per hour. Sessions under 90 minutes are 400 per hour.
Serve Me and Be Held – 500 per month
Scene with me at an Event – 150
Shop with me – 50 + 200 in gifts per hour
Lunch/dinner/coffee date – 200 per hour
Introductory coffee date – 75
Serve me in a D/s photoshoot – 200 / event
Serve me at a Femdom ‘House Service’ event – 200 / event, plus tribute
See Touring for touring rates.
Rates are described hourly. However, “Scene with me at an event” may be less than an hour, as it is simply a scene, for however long I deem appropriate. “Serve me and be held” is a base rate for one month of communication with me as I develop you as a submissive and as a person, as I deem appropriate, over the topics I deem appropriate.
Additional fees apply to scenes that require extensive preparation or cleanup, whether in the space, in my equipment, or in my mind.
Inquire with me for full day, overnight, and weekend rates, and ongoing “lifestyle” arrangements. Extended stays & ongoing arrangements are reserved for submissives whom I know well.