Soledad Domina
Goddess, Sadist, Owner
Professional Dungeon & Lifestyle Domme in Grand Rapids, Michigan
My Process
Send an inquiry to SoledadxDomina@proton.me stating your name, something about yourself or why you’re interested, and your availability.
Once we’ve corresponded via email and completed my screening process, we will arrange a time for a session or an introductory coffee date. An introductory coffee is a time for us to get to know each other, discuss our mutual interests, and explore whether we will be a good fit for each other. If you have pressing questions and concerns, this is a good time to ask them.
On Being Good
Clear, honest communication goes a long way in getting on my good list. Respect is absolutely necessary. Appropriate worship is a delight.
Arrive to all meetings fresh and appropriately dressed. Keep all online exchanges appropriate by steering clear of sexually explicit messaging. I will not be “getting you off” in a session, and you should avoid talking about “pegging” with a professional provider in most counties in Michigan. Description of fantasies and scenes should be kept to a necessary minimum until our coffee date.
While I enjoy one-time encounters, my favorite connections are those that have evolved into longer arcs. The narrative of a domme guiding her sub into deeper submission as the sub grows into even more emotionally resonant worship and exploration is one I enjoy in both my private and professional relationships.
On Being Bad (*not the good kind)
To stay in my favor, there are some key things to avoid. Same-day cancellations will incur a $50 fee, due at our next date or sent electronically. I am unbothered by an occasional cancellation, as long as my policy is honored and cancellations do not become a regular issue. Pushing my boundaries or begging is an immediate drop. While I may play rough with my toys, slaves, subjects, and pets, I respect them for what they are and I appreciate their time – and I expect the same from you.
Let’s get Started
The beginning of relationships are a delight. Whether you’re new to BDSM or Femdom or have decades of experience, our connection is something young and new. Our collaborative art is yet uncreated – and I look forward to exploring together.
Rates
Sessions – 350 per hour. Sessions under 90 minutes are 400 per hour.
Serve Me and Be Held – 500 per month
Be my Party Sub – 250
Scene with me at an event – 150
Shop with me – 50 + 200 in gifts
Lunch/dinner/coffee date – 150
Introductory coffee date – 75
Serve me in a D/s photoshoot – 200 / event
Serve me at a Femdom ‘House Service’ event – 200 / event, plus tribute
Rates are described hourly. However, “Scene with me at an event” may be less than an hour, as it is simply a scene, for however long I deem appropriate. “Serve me and be held” is a base rate for one month of communication with me as I develop you as a submissive and as a person, as I deem appropriate, over the topics I deem appropriate.
Inquire with me for full day and weekend rates, and ongoing “lifestyle” arrangements. Extended sessions & ongoing arrangements will be reserved for submissives whom I know well.