My Process
After reading this page, fill out the form below,
or send an inquiry to SoledadxDomina@proton.me stating your name, something about yourself or why you’re interested, a few words about your interests, and your city and availability.
Once I have reviewed your application and your ID, we will arrange a time for an Introductory Coffee Meet. An introductory coffee is a time for us to get to know each other, discuss our mutual interests, and explore whether we will be a good fit for each other. If you have pressing questions and concerns, this is a good time to ask them.
On Being Good
Clear, honest communication goes a long way in getting on my good list. Respect is absolutely necessary. Appropriate worship is a delight.
Arrive to all meetings fresh and appropriately dressed. Keep all online exchanges appropriate by steering clear of sexually explicit messaging. I will not be “getting you off” in a session, and you should avoid talking about “pegging” with a professional provider in most counties in the US.
Inquires that excite me most exude respect and gratitude for my time, personhood, dominance, and craft. While gifts and tips are seldom required, I am always pleased to receive them and know you were thinking of me.
While I enjoy one-time encounters, my favorite connections are those that evolve into longer arcs. The narrative of a domme guiding her sub into deeper submission as they grow into even more emotionally resonant worship and exploration is one I enjoy in both my private and professional relationships.
On Deposits
Deposits are required for most appointments when I am traveling. For privacy and ease of use, I accept deposits via most popular crypto currencies. Because I process all transactions through a privacy-built currency (ZEC), you can send me deposits using conventional currencies and easy wallets like Venmo and Cashapp’s bitcoin, and trust that your privacy and mine are still respected. After I receive your information and we’ve confirmed that we will meet, we’ll coordinate a payment and secure our time.
On Being Bad (*not the good kind)
To stay in my favor, there are some key things to avoid. Same-day cancellations will incur a fee, due at our next date or sent electronically. I am unbothered by an occasional cancellation, as long as my policy is honored and cancellations do not become a regular issue. Pushing my boundaries for any reason or begging is an immediate drop. While I may play rough with my toys, submissives, bottoms, and pets, I respect them for what they are and I appreciate their time – and I expect the same from you.
Are You ready?
You’ve Done the Research ✓
You have read this page and understand my expectations of you when you communicate with me.
You’re Ready to Screen ✓
You are prepared to send me a photo of your ID and a selfie with your ID with your initial inquiry.
You’re Ready to Meet ✓
You are ready to schedule to meet me in person, and look forward to what we will explore.
If all of these are true…
Let’s get Started
The beginning of relationships are a delight. Whether you’re new to BDSM or femdom or have decades of experience, our connection is something young and new. Our collaborative art is yet uncreated – and I look forward to exploring together.