My style of domination is authentic, communicative, and assertive. I love the creative expanse as submissive offers me through the physical and psychological canvas of their body and mind. While always grounded in mutual value, my style ranges from affectionate to cruel – and I delight in dynamics that have the depth, breadth, and sincerity to encompass both.
Domina, Goddess, Fetish
A great pleasure I get from my sessions is discovering the shared understanding of who I am to my submissive, and who my submissive is to me.
Whether as a handler, sadist, executrix, doctor, mommy, bully, or deity, I relish the awe, adoration, and worship that I inspire in my bottoms – and the power I have over their willing bodies and minds.
Different submissives tend to attach themselves to different aspects of my presence. My boots, my feet, or my legs. My hair, my spit, or my eyes. My voice and my praise. My cruelty and my kindness. My clarity. Regardless of which part extends its grip, which element enchants the intrepid admirer, I enjoy effortlessly enchanting my subjects simply by being who I am – and using that power to devastating effect.
Stretching the limits of reality.
I developed an early love for the fantastic through roleplay and fantasy, and this continues to inspire me in my personal and professional kink life.
I delight in using roleplay, hypnosis, and psychological rewiring to explore dynamics and scenarios that stretch past the limits of daily reality. Through this kind of play, I bring my submissives to places and depths they had not previously thought possible.
My submissives are my canvas.
Creation drives me. I love hearing a submissive’s fetishes and fantasies; learning through experience their unique ways of responding to fear, delight, and dominance; and weaving them together into a piece of living art. Every one of my sessions is an act of creation: of art in our world, of delight and pleasure in our lives, and of neural pathways that hold our memories and tell us who we are.
I enjoy putting together scenes that bring my subjects through emotional arcs, breaking them apart, putting them back together, and turning them into greater creations than they were when they entered. A mind of submissive or masochistic desire is a delight to toy with, and I take great pleasure in inspiring and manipulating its devotion and response.
Consent is at the heart of my dynamics.
The power exchange between me and my subjects is real. This warrants serious care and consideration for the physical and psychological wellbeing of all people involved, regardless of whether the exchange lasts an hour, a weekend, or a stretch of years.
I love edge play. I love consensual non-consent. The only way to practice these sincerely is to have the authentic, informed consent of my submissives. For submissives who dream of my violating their boundaries, there must be understanding and agreement about how far and in which directions my subject will be violated and pushed. If you wish to be stretched by me, you must first learn to voice (and with my permission, even beg for) your most secret and previously buried desires.
Safety
Safety is paramount to what I do. No human activity is without inherent danger, and no kink is risk free. I practice Risk Aware Consensual Kink, recognizing that no kink is without risk, and I endorse a philosophy of Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink, in which each participant shares in the responsibility of developing their own understanding of the risks involved with play. As a Dominant I gladly share the knowledge I have gained through my experiences over the years with submissives who are actively informing themselves of the risks of our activities. Understand the risks and safety mitigation strategies of the kinks you want to explore, and you will be much more able to give yourself freely to safer, thrilling experiences.